Weddings, Funerals and Graduations: Life
Sunday, May 27th, 2007Rita and I spent Friday at a dear friend’s home whose husband was dying of cancer. We watched them say their goodbyes, talked about the funeral plans, and left in the evening to give them their last few hours together.
The phone call came at midnight, Rhonda told Rita that Jerry had just “gone home”.
Yesterday we went to 2 high school graduations, not our own children, but friends of the family. The ritual was familiar (I guess that’s part of what ritual is), and the time was special. Hugs all around, some tears (yes, even macho me.)
Today, my wife and I practiced a song we are singing in a wedding celebration next weekend.
All different events with one major thing in common: this is the stuff of life.
Traveling to the far corners of the world, meeting people that don’t look like me, smelling different smells, watching as other cultures worship God- that’s exciting and rewarding and tiring and wonderful and sometimes lonely.
Today, I celebrate the ordinary. The living, the graduating, the falling in love and marrying, and yes, the sad goodbye of death.
It’s all a part of this incredible gift we have been given by our Creator/Father/God.
The gift of life.
Be it sad and hard sometimes, joyous and exhilarating, peaceful or sometimes just ordinary, today is, in one sense, all we have.
I don’t want to just read or write about life, I won’t be content just to sing or speak or hear about it.
I want to live it!
Celebrating Today,
Godrest and Godspeed,
David Baroni